Archive for the 'Dating' Category

Help Find The Right One By Becoming The Right One

A lot of people talk about their desire to meet their soul mate, their other half, or the right one.  Whatever terminology is used the meaning is basically the same.  You want to meet that special person who is your perfect partner.     I happened to watch a dating program on the television where [...]

The Need To Give And Receive Attention

The need for attention is acknowledged by most and yet also feared at times.  There are of course times in everyone’s existence when you would like to avoid attention, stay in the background or slip from a room unnoticed.  Yet in the main to gain attention is a primary need in life.   From the [...]

How To Chat Up Girls Successfully

Some chat up lines work, whilst others do not.  Some flirtatious approaches work for some people but have disastrous effects upon others.  If you watched the movie “Bad Teacher” you would have seen several examples of both.      A lot can be said for perseverance in that if you keep trying you stand a [...]

What Not To Do When Chatting Up Girls

In the movie “Bad Teacher” there are a few scenes that relate to the typical teenage crush and how a guy learns to pluck up the courage to ask a girl out.  Unfortunately this kid generally attempts it the wrong way, committing many mortal sins in terms of teenage dating etiquette.     It’s rather [...]

Gaining That Sun Kissed Look Through Finding Love

Few people do not enjoy the sunshine, be it to bathe your body in its rays or simply to view how the sunshine brightens the world around us from the safe confines of a shady spot.  We like brightness, we like things that sparkle and shimmer.  The sun does all this and so much more [...]

Do You Love Too Much?

Is it actually possible to love too much?  If we consider for a moment love and hate as being opposite emotions, we do all no doubt agree that it is easily possible to hate too much.  Hate in any degree is a dangerous and destructive emotion.  Hating at all therefore constitutes hating too much.   [...]

How To Capture and Keep Your Man

Over that last twenty years there have been a huge number of articles and books written upon this topic.  Needless to say, how to chat up girls and how to get your ex back have also become hot topics.     These relationship issues are inevitably extremely important to us.  We are not ideally suited [...]

Living In Fear of Being Dumped

What does this fear really mean?  You’re definitely feeling insecure in your relationship, but there may be different reasons that are giving rise to this feeling.   For some people it may have little to do with the current relationship, but a fear that is carried forward as a reaction to past experiences.  For others [...]

Predictability Versus Excitement In Relationships

Predictability or excitement; which are you more drawn towards?  In reality most of us like a little of both, although the most important in the end is usually predictability.  We are creatures of habit and routine, whether we like to think of ourselves like that or otherwise.   We generally feel more comfortable and confident [...]

How To Work Out What He Is Really Thinking

How many times do you find yourself wondering what your partner is really thinking about?  Do you find yourself second guessing where he or she is coming from or jumping to conclusions instead?   You will usually find that if you are spending much time musing over these sorts of questions you are in actual [...]

How to be Happy and Open in Your Relationships

Some people are instinctively honest and open; some would say that these people are too open and trusting and in this way leave themselves open and vulnerable to others who are tougher than them. Other people are more guarded and watch what they say and do around others and either keep themselves to themselves or [...]

Stop Stalking Your Ex

Please stop stalking your ex; it won’t do you any good! Exes come in many forms; girlfriends or boyfriends, husbands or wives, bosses or colleagues, therapists..or even figments of one’s imaginary world.  Stalking is stalking, no matter who you are obsessing about or how you are going about your obsession.  And to stalk a person [...]

Flirting Tips for The Modern Day Man

Most guys would love to have the “gift of the gab” when it comes to approaching girls with the intention of dating.  You’d love to be able to deliver all of those funny and effective pick-up lines in a smooth and cool manner.    But the reality is that very few guys manage to do [...]

Is Your Relationship Complicated?

Have you watched the movie “It’s complicated”? It’s a fun movie in which its stars, Alec Baldwin and Meryl Streep, are as good as ever at their jobs.  They play fascinating parts which are all too frequently experienced in modern daily lives.   When we watch a movie or read a novel we become absorbed [...]

Making Long Distance Relationships Work

Making long distance relationships work. A certain mind set is required by those who wish to make a long distance relationship work.  Both parties to the relationship have to be equally committed, and they have to be both trusting and trust worthy.  Without these ingredients, doubts and fears will wriggle their way into your mind [...]